pick at v 1: pluck or pull at with the fingers; "She picked nervously at the buttons of her blouse" [syn: {pick at}, {pluck at}, {pull at}] 2: eat like a bird; "The anorexic girl just picks at her food" [syn: {pick at}, {peck at}, {peck}] 3: express a negative opinion of; "She disparaged her student's efforts" [syn: {disparage}, {belittle}, {pick at}] [ant: {blandish}, {flatter}]