from
Jargon File (4.4.4, 14 Aug 2003)
nastygram
/nas'tee.gram/, n.
1. A protocol packet or item of email (the latter is also called a
{letterbomb}) that takes advantage of misfeatures or security holes on
the target system to do untoward things.
2. Disapproving mail, esp. from a {net.god}, pursuant to a violation
of {netiquette} or a complaint about failure to correct some mail- or
news-transmission problem. Compare {shitogram}, {mailbomb}.
3. A status report from an unhappy, and probably picky, customer.
"What'd Corporate say in today's nastygram?"
4. [deprecated] An error reply by mail from a {daemon}; in particular,
a {bounce message}.