discreetness

from WordNet (r) 3.0 (2006)
discreetness
    n 1: knowing how to avoid embarrassment or distress; "the
         servants showed great tact and discretion" [syn:
         {discretion}, {discreetness}, {circumspection}, {prudence}]
    2: subtly skillful handling of a situation [syn: {delicacy},
       {diplomacy}, {discreetness}, {finesse}]
    
from The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48
Discreet \Dis*creet"\, a. [Compar. {Discreeter}; superl.
   {Discreetest}.] [F. discret, L. discretus separated (whence
   the meaning reserved, prudent), p. p. of discernere. See
   {Discern}, and cf. {Discrete}.]
   1. Possessed of discernment, especially in avoiding error or
      evil, and in the adaptation of means to ends; prudent;
      sagacious; judicious; not rash or heedless; cautious.
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            It is the discreet man, not the witty, nor the
            learned, nor the brave, who guides the conversation,
            and gives measures to society.        --Addison.
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            Satire 's my weapon, but I 'm too discreet
            To run amuck, and tilt at all I meet. --Pope.
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            The sea is silent, the sea is discreet.
                                                  --Longfellow.
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   2. Differing; distinct. [Obs.] --Spenser. -- {Dis*creet"ly},
      adv. -- {Dis*creet"ness}, n. Discrepance
    

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