rtfm

from Jargon File (4.4.4, 14 Aug 2003)
RTFM
 /R.T.F.M/, imp.

   [Unix] Abbreviation for `Read The Fucking Manual'.

   1. Used by {guru}s to brush off questions they consider trivial or
   annoying. Compare {Don't do that then!}.

   2. Used when reporting a problem to indicate that you aren't just
   asking out of {randomness}. "No, I can't figure out how to interface
   Unix to my toaster, and yes, I have RTFM." Unlike sense 1, this use is
   considered polite. See also {FM}, {RTFAQ}, {RTFB}, {RTFS}, {STFW},
   {RTM}, all of which mutated from RTFM, and compare {UTSL}.
    
from The Free On-line Dictionary of Computing (8 July 2008)
RTFM

   <jargon> /R T F M/ Read The Fucking Manual (always
   abbreviated, sometimes bowdlerised to "Fine" or "Friendly") An
   (unhelpful) {guru}'s traditional response when someone asks a
   question in a {newsgroup} or {mailing list} which he could
   have easily answered for himself had he bothered to RTFM.

   The term may also be used to indicate that you couldn't find
   the answer in the manual.  E.g. "How do I interface Unix to my
   toaster?  And yes, I did RTFM but the {FM} didn't help and I
   can't {RTFS}."

   Other derived forms include {RTFAQ}, {RTFB}, {RTM}, and, more
   recently, {STFW}.  Compare: {UTSL}.

   [Earliest use?]

   [{Jargon File}]

   (2003-06-07)
    
from V.E.R.A. -- Virtual Entity of Relevant Acronyms (June 2006)
RTFM
       Read The Flaming / Fucking Manual (slang, Usenet, IRC)
       
    

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