blandishing

from The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48

Blandish \Blan"dish\, v. t. [imp. & p. p. {Blandished}; p. pr. &
   vb. n. {Blandishing}.] [OE. blaundisen, F. blandir, fr. L.
   blandiri, fr. blandus mild, flattering.]
   1. To flatter with kind words or affectionate actions; to
      caress; to cajole.
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   2. To make agreeable and enticing.
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            Mustering all her wiles,
            With blandished parleys.              --Milton.
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