self-pity n 1: a feeling of sorrow (often self-indulgent) over your own sufferings
23 Moby Thesaurus words for "self-pity": benevolence, clemency, commiseration, compassion, condolence, favor, feeling, forbearance, forgiveness, grace, humanity, kindness, leniency, mercy, mitigation, pardon, pathos, pity, quarter, relief, reprieve, ruth, sympathy